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Let me begin with a quick disclaimer, I’m not yucking your yum, you’re grown and you like what you like! This is just a silly wondered I had.

My current boyfriend and I were discussing how we learned about sex as teens and he had mentioned that he read a lot of wattpad/fanfic.net/tumblr etc you know the deal, rather than watching porn. His reasoning was something along the lines of “porn is unrealistic, I get pleasure from seeing your pleasured, writing is better cuz it’s left to your imagination and sex is an intimate experience” that’s when I had a bizarre wondered.

My previous boyfriends weren’t big on my pleasure in the bedroom and would try to do ridiculous things they saw in porn or trying to bend me in a way I don’t bed, no cuddles or aftercare. They were all awful in their special way but the thing they had in common is that they alll watched a lot of porn and that’s where they learned about sex.

Of course the fact that my boyfriend and I are deeply in love, I think him being a dweeb for smut plays a big role in how we have sex. Again just a quirky wondered I had

Anyone else experienced something similar?

NSFW: yes

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