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I’m pretty inexperienced but am currently on a sort of sex education journey to understand what I like and try a bunch of stuff. I’ve at all times really liked the idea of blowjobs and it seemed a good place to begin, so I starting talking to some guys on different sites. This guy was one of the few who wasn’t just ‘hehe, i’d love to throat fuck you’ but was able to talk frankly about expectations and my experience in a mature way, and kept checking if I was still comfortable, so I agreed to meet him near his place.
So… today I met up with a guy who knew I was inexperienced and we had discussed me trying oral for the first time. Met for coffee near his place, and he was sane and respectful (which was a relief given meeting an anonymous internet stranger was a bit of a gamble) and we kissed a bit and then went back to his place. He told me he was hard pretty much as soon as I got inside his apartment which was surprising (pretty sure I’m not his body type lol) but a relief as I was more worried about getting him hard and using my hands than giving him a blowjob!
He took off his clothes and asked if I would taking off my top/bra whilst I went down on him and we pretty much got straight into it. His dick was bigger than I was expecting and he told me to begin off slow and use my tongue. To be honest, he wasn’t very vocal which was a bit disappointing, I did stop to prompt him/ask him what he liked, but he didn’t really say much besides ‘yeah’ and ‘keep going’. I couldn’t really take him all the way, so I kept my hand on the base of his cock. Still had no idea what to do there so I just gently squeezed whilst alternating between sucking on his tip and trying to get create a kind of steady pace taking him as deep as I could whilst using my tongue (I wondered he’d be more sensitive at the tip, but because he wasn’t very vocal I couldn’t really tell). A lot of the advice I got was to use my saliva and honestly I kept thinking I wasn’t producing enough (I chickened out of actually spitting and just licked my hand at the beginning)
He was only really vocal when I stopped to suck on his balls ( he wasn’t really telling me if it was going well so I tried to switch it up). He seemed to be a big fan of me sucking on his balls, I wasn’t sure if I was being too tentative but he finally said ‘oh that’s just right’ so I kept that up for another minute, before going back to his cock and trying to suck a bit more firmly and quickly rubbing my tongue. He came pretty quickly after that and I swallowed, tasted slightly bitter but the texture wasn’t as bad as I was expecting. He didn’t really give me any warning when he was about to come but he had warned me beforehand he was a heavy cummer, but I honestly have nothing to compare it to, it felt manageable to me idk none spilled out?
It didn’t last very long, I was expecting to have to put a LOT more work in. I was worried about teeth (I think I have a small mouth and he was thicker than I was expecting) but I think I mostly avoided it, and he didn’t say anything or react badly. We cuddled for a bit and made out and I noticed he was already hard again so I offered to try again, this time focusing a bit more on kissing his thighs, starting with his balls. He had said he liked that I kept eye contact for most of it the first time so I did that and… he came again pretty quickly.
At this point I assumed I was doing something right, but I still had no idea what specifically he liked, so I asked him about it. He didn’t really say anything new besides he loved the eye contact and liked that I wasn’t too aggressive with his balls, and then he asked if he could suck on my nipples for a bit. I’m not sensitive there but he was very into it, he had gotten hard again (kind of surprised at how quickly he was getting hard by now but no complaints, definitely made things easy for me) and wanted to slide his cock between my boobs for a while. Eventually I asked if I could use my mouth on him again and he lay back down and I tried to use my hands and mouth on his chest and nipples but again, not much reaction, so I kind of gave up and just starting blowing him again. He was a bit more active (I had told him it was okay beforehand) and was pulling my hair for me to take it deeper. I did gag a bit, and it was finally getting a bit sloppier, and after a while, he used both hands to hold my head still and fuck my mouth for a bit.
Appreciated that he started off slow and shallow, and built it up, and then went back to shallow thrusts when I gagged, so I liked letting him control things. Eventually he pushed deep and I took it as far as I had been able to go until I really felt like I couldn’t breathe through my nose any more (lot of drool, running eyes and nose at this point…) and he let go and let me take back control again. Didn’t take long after that and he came again (the first load was bitter, but 2nd and 3rd didn’t really taste of anything?), I sucked for a while longer after he came until he gently pulled my hair and we cuddled for a bit and chatted until I left.
I’m really surprised at how quickly he came since I didn’t use my hands much, first two times was under 5 minutes, third time was just over 10 minutes I think (though he spent a while sliding his cock between my breasts)? I’m still considering if I’m gonna meet him again (he asked about having a fwb arrangement and he lives 10 minutes away from me which is convenient ), I liked his vibe and how respectful he was, but I’m looking for a teaching kind of arrangement, and he didn’t really talk much about what he liked or tell me what he wanted me to do at any point even with prompting, so I don’t know :/
Overall I liked it but didn’t really feel like I learned as much as I was hoping too and a little disappointed I couldn’t take it as deep as I was hoping to. Pretty pleased that I managed to keep the rhythm going as he came the second and third time. Honestly though I feel like I just have more questions about how to give a good blowjob, and I think I want to try with other people, as nice as he was.
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It doesn’t sound like a bad first experience. He may have felt awkward telling you what he likes or didn’t want to hurt your feelings. He should have communicated more though. If it was me, I’d try to communicate more