How I [25F Indian Domme] got into a D/s relationship with an ex colleague [24M Indian Sub] of mine

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I’m in a managerial position at a business (based in India) and the most senior member (rank wise) in my team. So almost two years ago, we hired a guy on a short term contract to fill in for a member of our team who would be going away for a few months for personal reasons.

Now this guy looked really good on paper and did well during the recruitment process and seemed like the perfect fit for the role so we hired him. However, when he actually started working for us, he was one of the most useless and difficult person to work with that I have ever seen. He would struggle with the most basic tasks and would need mentoring at every turn. Not a single day would go past without me having to tell him off.

At one point, we considered terminating his contract based on poor performance but because it was a short term contract (a matter of few months) and advertising the role again wouldn’t be cost effective we decided against it and stuck with him. This constant mentoring him meant I was all the time close to him (compared to my other team members) in a professional sense. Outside of work he was a pretty cool guy, although a little introverted, as I found out from the work parties, events and after work team meet-ups at the bar.

When his contract expired and he left, he messaged me saying he had found a new job (not going to lie I was shocked lol) and needed a reference from me. I told him I’d write him a letter of recommendation but that he shouldn’t expect it to be full of praises. I also told him that it wasn’t anything personal against him and it was just me being professional. He said that was ok with him.

He thanked me and then he said something that would change our relationship forever. He said something (in Hindi) along the lines of “I’m going to miss working under you and that whenever you scolded me, I found it nice and I just wanted to admit it kind of turned me on.” Reading this, I kind of went into domme mode and texted back “if that turned you on, you should see what I can do when I’m not bound by the code of conduct in the workplace”.

Intrigued by my response, he desperately started asking what I meant by that and I, not wanting to disclose being a domme, just deflected and began beating around the bush. After a bit of going back and forth, I think he got the message and he finally admitted that he was actually submissive and that’s where his introverted personality stems from. Reading his admission, and having led him on, I wondered it was only fair I admit to him that I’m secretly a domme and into BDSM related kinks.

He went quiet for a bit (didn’t text back for a good two minutes or so) and when he finally replied he asked me the golden question – “would you do the honour of letting me serve you and be your submissive slave?”. I playfully declined as to make him beg before finally saying yes. I told him let’s meet up soon and discuss, in person, how we would go about this.

We met up a few days later and discussed in depth things like what each other’s expectations are from the D/s dynamic, our kinks, (soft and hard) limits, safe words, importance of confidentiality etc. Basically things you should be communicating and discussing whenever establishing a kink based relationship. Based off our answers during the discussion, I drew up a basic contract like document which we both signed. I kept the original and gave him a copy.

Since then he’s been my longest serving sub and we’ve gotten pretty deep into it. We’ve both tried a lot of new things with each other that would usually be out of our comfort zones. Somethings we’ve enjoyed, and kept as part of our dynamic, and other things not so much and so they made it onto our respective limits lists.

Our relationship has developed so much to the extent that it’s almost a 24/7 FLR type dynamic (with some downtime to allow for personal space and time) in the sense he reports to me everyday and I give him certain instructions and tasks to do. Failure to complete tasks and/or follow instructions commands punishment(s). On a few occasions, we’ve also stayed over at each other’s places or booked a hotel for a few days when we really want to get it on. We’ve also looked at and discussed the possibility of moving in together and making this a live in D/s partnership but maybe that’s something for the future.

NSFW: yes

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