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Stage 0: This is an optional preemptive stage that can occur before the actual blowjob. It consists of kissing of the lips, face, neck or body; as well as grabbing and/or rubbing of the penis either through the pants or skin on skin. This would be considered foreplay and may or may not occur depending on the circumstances or preferences of both parties involved.

Stage 1: This stage is where the actual blowjob begins and can be done in many methods usually dependent on the events the occur prior.
1a: If the optional stage 0 has been performed, then the penis is already erect and this can start stage 1a. This stage is normally characterized by high energy and is where “showing off” can be done. The giver has the most energy and doesn’t yet suffer from any of the issues that occur later in the process. This is where long and fast bobbing movements can be done as well as deepthroating.
1b: If the penis is not erect during the begin of this stage, then a slow long sucking of a soft penis may be required. (This may be a preference of the giver and or receiver). Once the penis is erect, the events follow that of stage 1a. With stage 1b. being a stand in for stage 0.
Small breaks may occur where hand and tongue is used solely but may not necessarily mark the end of this stage.

Stage 2: This can be used as a break stage, characterized by either slower mouth movements focusing more on the head of the penis and/or on long slow licks from the tongue up and down the shaft and balls. This may also (depending on preference) be a reverse of effort where the the receiver takes more control and puts in more of the effort in the form of stroking himself or face-fucking his partner.

Stage 3. This stage can be a continuation of stage 2, and can be used as a break stage if the former stage was rough. Or if the previous stage was used as a break, then this stage can be defined as the “second wind” for the giver as she has rested her jaw and can once again perform the intensive action of stage 1a. and perform long fast and deep bobbing motions on the penis and deepthroat. The length of this (and all stages) is relative to the preferences and circumstances of both parties involved and may even be skipped entirely.

Stage 4: This is another break stage and may or may not be necessary. For experienced girls, the momentum of stage 3 can be carried into stage 5 and completely skip over this stage. This stage may also be skipped depending on the overall duration of the blowjob as if it progresses too quickly, the definition of the stages may blur completely. This is normally due to a large gap in experience between the two participants. This stage could also be used as a teasing stage where the giver slows down intentionally to torment the receiver. Things such as slapping the penis on the tongue, only using hands to stimulate, or even not touching it completely can be done in this stage.

Stage 5: This is the pleasure stage, at this point the booking is about 90% complete* and this stage involves rapid hand and mouth movements over the penis and sucking and swirling over the head. This continues until orgasm is achieved and depending on the preference of those involved, this can be done either in the mouth directly, or over a specific body part achieved by either participant using their hand to achieve orgasm. If the orgasm occurs in the mouth of the giver, she may either swallow and keep sucking for a few moments, or spit it out into some form of receptacle.

*Optional post orgasm stages

Stage 6: This stage follows immediately after orgasm and is characterized by the giver either not slowing down after stage 5, or picking back up right after orgasm. This can be done fast or slow at the digression of the giver. This is where “post orgasm torture” occurs. The penis is most sensitive during this stage and this can be exploited by the giver if she wishes.

Stage 7: This is the holy grail stage. If a female can perform this stage, she is definitely an expert in this field. This is where the “torture” of the previous round returns to unbridled pleasure. This is essentially where the first 5 stages start all over again and the penis is brought to orgasm a second time. This can be done faster or slower than the original process and takes considerable dedication from the giver. This may also occur more than once but warning is advised past this point.

This by no means a rule book. It is simply a guide and is made from my own personal experience and what I’ve observed in pornography. This is can be done in a wide form of styles and orders and is crucial a fun activity and not to be seen as a chore. The attitude and relationship of the participants is also very crucial to the overall experience and can make or break a good blowjob.

Feel free to opinion and let me k ow if you think anything should be altered but this may be different for different people. Especially looking for input from females as I have no experience from that perspective.

NSFW: yes

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