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I receive all kinds of sex questions and confessions. And some deserve just a little more attention. We all the time want to find our sexuality, play a different game, gain different experiences, etc. Whether you seek the satisfaction of stimulation in reality is an option, with your own partner or with a lover. Don’t you agree that a monogamous relationship is more based on the selfishness of pride and greed? When a partner is seen as property (status and possession) and therefore he or she should not be shared with anyone else? Incidentally, the ban on multiple sexual partners is one of the reasons that encourages cheating. Breaching boundaries will all the time be tempting, right?

For those that never read any of my posts, let me introduce myself, I am a doctor/general practitioner (GP), married, I have a gorgeous daughter, and I have a COCK addiction, if you have any questions, feel free to contact me and I will answer any question you have xxx

Hope you like the following shared from my readers and I have their permission to post them:

**Anonymous**

Hi doctor, I’m 8 years with my boyfriend now. I had already sex before him, so I did not lose my virginity by him, but that doesn’t make much difference. In those 8 years I grown up and gained much more self-confidence. I changed from a girl (ugly ducky) into a young attractive woman. Gradually I noticed that I got more attention from men and I started to flirt, something I would never have done years ago, and I also have fantasies, and wet dreams about having sex with other men. Our relationship is good. I really see myself having kids with him. He is very vulnerable, sensitive, sweet, loyal, kind, really treats me like his girl and we have tender sex, but I need sex like in the porn movies, uncontrolled wild sex, pure lust. We do give each other a lot of attention, lots of compliments, attention, cuddling, and we also have sex a few times a week, so it’s not that.

We’ve had a major relationship dip for six months after I cheated on him, it happened and I was stupid. Still, I feel enormously attracted to other men and I am afraid to make the same mistake again, because I only love him and I don’t want to cheat again or anything. I doubted for a moment whether this belongs to sex or to the relationship pillar, but okay. The idea that I’ll never have thrills again, never have wild sex, and stay with him until my death also worries me. While…what if I continue to slut around for a year now, make sure he will not understand, I will not lose him, because someone like my boyfriend, you don’t discover them that easy.

**Anonymous**

I might be young and not have that much experience with relationships, but what I do know is that sex is one of the most essential parts of a relationship. The sex with my ex was bad and I took it for granted because I loved him, but it was only when I broke up that I realized was I was missing. There have been dates that satisfied me so much more in bed, that I never want to go into a new relationship if there is no sexual match.

**Pam (30)**

I am Pam, 30 years, married and I have a black lover. I am a married woman and nothing happens secretly, my husband is aware, and I almost destroyed our marriage, but after some time he calmed down and now understands and accepts the situation, not that he agrees, but he loves me unconditional. I love my husband in a way I could never love someone else. I also have plenty of sex with my husband and that is wonderful cuddle sex, I really enjoy that, but with my black lover it is pure horniness, lust and much more intense (harder and deeper because of his big dick) than with my husband. Of course, after all the sex I have built up a certain connection with my black lover, but I can not speak of a relationship or love. Would call it a degree of sex friendship at most. We do talk to each other, also about typical matters, also about our relationships, but usually it is all very much focused on horny sex talks and infinite hard fucking. I think it am good in separating love from lust, I do like my black lover, mostly because of his body and the extra inches, but nothing more. I often had sex relationships with men before I met my husband, with whom I did not want a real relationship at all, just sex and pleasure.

**Liz28**
There I was, my mother passed away, my husband got fired, I lost a lot of weight, and then a sort of counter-reaction happened, a sexual unrest in my marriage. I didn’t recognize myself anymore, could only think about sex, constant horny, the complete opposite of my husband, that was all the time tired and never in the mood since he is infinite job hunting. I started to chat with men on sex dating sites and met finally them to have sex. To most of them I wasn’t attracted to at all, some were much older than me, but so enjoyed the stillness of my sex drive. I am still doing it, never stopped having sex with other man, sometimes 2 times a week. I know I am risking my marriage, but it actually saved our marriage. My husband knows nothing, because it also means nothing to me, only lust, nothing to do with love.

**Anonymous**

For 4 months, I have a boyfriend and with him I had sex for the first time. My boyfriend is 6 years older then and has experience with sex. I am really in love with him and he with me. But we have a issue, I don’t come with him, while it is very nice, he does it in a way with his mouth that it feels like it could happen, but it never does. But my boyfriend finds it very annoying that he can’t make me come and he actually does it in such a way that I started to feel guilty and insecure. I told him many times not be concerned about this, but he kept doing it anyway, which made it increasingly difficult for me to relax when we had sex.

I started to blame myself for not coming and it made me really insecure and just when I started to feel weirder, I run into my favourite teacher at the coffee corner. Immediate he could tell something was wrong me and at first, I said nothing was wrong, tried to walk away, but then I started crying and told him everything. After class he offered to take me home instead of taking the bus. In the car he told me that he had some books about the female orgasm and if I wanted, I could borrow them. I agreed to go to his house first and to pick up the books. I sat down in his living room when he sat down next to me with the books. Like the good teacher he was, immediate he started to read from the books, all quite interesting, but not much did I find out the book. Then he asked me to thrust him and I did. I agreed to take my pants off and to let my teacher introduce me to the wonderful world of the female orgasm. Quite shy and somewhat uncomfortable I let him get on with it, and he started stimulating my vagina with his fingers. Of course, knowing what I did was wrong, but also, I did not expect anything to happen, but then he touched me in a way I did not feel before.

I started to get extremely aroused and my body started to trust with the motion of his fingers, and he continued touching me on all the right spots. And then it happened, I never had come so hard. I felt it through my entire body and the feeling kept on going, it did not stop and I also did not want my teacher to stop. The moment I could normally breath again, I thanked my teacher and promised not to talk about what happened to anyone. Now I wanted to experience these same feelings with my boyfriend. But somehow, things started to change between me and my boyfriend after I also had my first orgasm with my boyfriend, maybe I opened up more, or his self-confidence returned after I came, I don’t know, but our sex life really improved.

**Emma (34)**

It was that very nice evening with my colleague, Simon. Talking, laughing, walking through the unknown city after the seminar, together in a city far from my home and my family. To finally, inevitably, end up in a hotel room. Simon was fantastic. We had very wild and intense sex on the marble sink in the bathroom. We continued on the floor, in bed, against the wall. We used every inch in the hotel room to have sex. We rested, and started again, there was little time to sleep. The next morning, I woke up and could hardly believe Simon was next to me in bed. It may sound crazy, but at that moment a sort of peace entered my head and I wanted more sex. We skipped breakfast at the hotel, we had sex until we really had no choice but to leave the room. My husband didn’t notice anything when I arrived home. On the contrary, I walked around in a good mood and could endure much more. From him and from our kids. Even making love with him got better.

Lying became my second nature. As bad as it sounds, I became an expert in escaping the house. I suddenly had to travel more for work, visiting my friends, more time at the gym etc. All lies to be able to have sex with Simon, we did it everywhere and as much as efficient. Gonna work was great, because there I could see Simon during luch breaks to have sex. Later it turned out that my husband got suspicious and found out, that you think you are very subtle about everything, but if you have been living with a man for fifteen years, he knows every part of you. we are still married, I had to resign to safe our marriage and promise never to see Simon again.

**Sophia**

We have been together for quite some time, more than 10 years. I am still in love with him and fortunate enough to have sex and I more or less accepted the fact that he cheated on me every now and then. As long as he is honest about it and tells me what and with who he did it. Obviously, this has led to many problems. For example, every time when I go to the supermarket, I see the girl behind the bread section that has done it with my husband. Or my neighbour that comes over for a coffee, knowing all the dirty things she had done with him, not easy to forget. Or our babysitter that loves to be taken home by my husband in our car. Knowing all dirty things, how they did it and what they did, was one thing, but knowing with whom, was difficult to handle, especially pretending not to know anything to the outside world.

The current situation, for a couple of months there is a fixed third in the game. My husband does not want to lose us both. At first, I did not think that I could pull it off, thinking I was too coward to divorce and begin over. It felt Impossible for me to compete with her. She is younger than me, tall, slim, twice the boob size as I have (and still in place). Besides, knowing what they did in bed, things I would never do. So, I decided to have sex with others too, to have some balance in our marriage. I started dating and it took me not long to discover men that were interested to have sex with me, at first, I felt guilty but it took me not long to surrender to the new me. the funny part, somehow my husband does not like to hear about my sex adventures but I all the time had to listen to every detail of his. A little jealous maybe?

**Boy**

Hi doctor, I have cheated all my life and no girlfriend ever found out. How? You need to be clever, don’t forget when a woman gets suspicious, they are better then any detective. When you follow my rules, you won’t get caught, unless you do something stupid.

1 all the time use a cloth roller to remove all her hairs.

2 make sure she does not use perfume, quite difficult to shower that smell off.

3 have the same shampoo with you, so you can shower with the same scent after the sex

4 never fuck in your own car (hair, smell, wet seat, forgotten panties)

5 go to a hotel out of route, not between her and you

6 begin working overtime more often, normalize being home later

7 never colleagues, friends, friends of friends etc, there are plenty unknown girls to do it with

8 condoms all the time, coming how with an STD is not preferable

9 use the right condoms with low taste and smell, to avoid your cock smell like rubber

10 wash your hands extremely well, you can’t have your fingers smell like pussy

11 don’t fuck a smoker if you both don’t smoke in your house

12 her foundation or lipstick on your shirt? Throw it away

13 make sure to keep some reserves, make sure you get it up when your girlfriend want sex

14 have a 2nd phone that you turn off when you are with your girlfriend

15 remain a mystery, don’t distribute your address or real name with any girl

Tip, if you’re cheating, then I would advise to do all those things with her that you can not do with your own girlfriend, otherwise what’s the point of cheating on her!

Please if you have any questions, confessions, or you need some advice, or just horny talks, feel free to contact me and I will answer any question you have xxx

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