Ask your doctor – Kink or Fetish?

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I receive all kinds of sex questions and confessions. And some deserve just a little more attention. Aah… sex. I cannot write enough about it. The lust, the overwhelming, the disappointments, the downright weird. The most outrageous experiences, all the sexy news and professional explanations to provocative questions.

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**“Kinky individuals appear to be mentally healthier than the general population”.**

A kink is usually considered a milder version of a fetish. Think of a nonstandard sexual interest that isn’t as critical to your sexuality as a fetish might be.

You have a kink when you discover something exciting, interesting or attractive, when your sexual arousal doesn’t really depend on it. So, you can discover the use of whips or handcuffs horny, but if you still have enough arousal without these objects, it’s not really a fetish. Even if you get horny from sex in public, this is not a fetish as long as you also enjoy fucking in the bedroom. You can at all times call a fetish a kink, but kinks are not at all times a fetish. Some of the most common kinks are:

– BDSM (domination, submission)

– Cuckolding (arousal from the humiliation of your partner fucking someone else)

– Exhibitionism (arousal when others watch you fuck, the opposite from voyeurism, where watching others having sex elicits arousal.

– Role-play (arousal from portraying fictional or familiar characters during sex)

A fetish is a fixation on an object, action, or body part that is considered essential to the sexual arousal of the person with the fetish. Without involving this part in sex, the person experiences much less pleasure. So, fetishes are actually essential for the satisfaction of the person. A fetish is a non-standard sexual interest. There are many different types of fetishes, for example:

– A body part (feet, armpits, body hair)

– An object (high heels, gloves, nylon, fur, rubber, leather)

– An activity (spanking, bondage, pegging, electrostimulation, cuckolding)

A fetish is more of a set pattern of arousal and these tend to be quite specific. A kink is not necessarily specific like a fetish. A kink is typically an experience used to enhance a sexual moment. People often have more than one kink or one fetish. For example, if someone likes age difference, role play can be added. For example, one will be dressed as a professor and the other as a student. This is how you combine a kink and fetish.

What would you do if your boyfriend told you he wants to watch you fuck another man with a bigger cock than him? Your first wondered might be that he’s lost his mind. But there are many men who have this fetish, also known as cuckolding were woman can do everything and a man can’t do anything.

Of course it’s not a issue if you have certain sexual interests that most people would discover a little different. Everyone likes something different. What matters most is how you handle your kinks or fetish. If you deal with it in a healthy, safe, consent, honest way then the sexual difference is healthy. Even if it is rare or extreme.

Hope you enjoy the following shared from my REDDIT followers, friends and patients, and I have their permission to post them:

**Lindy 18**

I think a fetish is just something that makes you horny, something that is not considered ordinary. I myself have a thing for pee, not that I want my boyfriend to pee in my mouth. But when we have sex, I like to pee on him.

**Hans 26**

I have since puberty a fetish for the smell of women’s feet, especially the smell of their worn socks and stockings. I realized that I had a fetish when I got horny one day from smelling the worn socks of my mom and sister. Growing up, most girls I dated found me pervert, but not Nathalie, my gaming friend from class, she was different than all other girls. For her it was no issue to wear the same socks a couple of days or to give me a foot job with her sweaty socks and to compensate, I licked her pussy many times. When I see a woman wearing socks or stockings, I get all kinds of sexual fantasies. And it might sound very strange, but I at all times ask my dates to wear sock or stockings during the sex.

**Anonymous 18**

I started working as a waitress in a restaurant and we had to wear a short skirt and shirt, all the girls had to wear the same. The first day I wore my skirt I got incredibly wet. And now I mean absurdly wet, not just a small wet spot, but my whole thong got soaked. When I felt it, I first wondered I had my period, or maybe an infection or something. I actually didn’t feel excited I was too busy working, but it just didn’t stop leaking. At one point I took off my thong in the toilet because it was all wet. But then it just got worse, as I was running through the restaurant, I just leaked down my legs. And then, well, I actually got excited. When I arrived home, I had become so horny that it only took me 10 seconds to orgasm. Now at first, I wondered I was just having a crazy day, but the second day actually the same thing happened, I think I get subconsciously excited from the skirt and I even fingered in a toilet which is really something I would never do at all.

**Anonymous 35**

Not sure if this is a fetish, but I get horny from my girlfriend’s sexual past. My girlfriend confessed when friends started talking about it. I felt horny when I found out through stories from her friends that she was sometimes sucking 3 different cocks a week. I cannot quite explain what makes me horny exactly. Maybe the jealousy or disgust that more than 50 men have dumped big loads of cum inside my girlfriend? Maybe It’s a sort of masochistic fetish, but I started fantasizing about, how much she enjoyed fucking all those other men. In fact, I don’t come anymore if I don’t fantasize about her fucking someone else. Sometimes I can almost cum just by thinking of it, because it is a horny but not a very pleasant fantasy because it probably actually happened, she actually fucked all those men before me.

**Oliver**

I’m Oliver and I’m ** years old. And I really want to tell you about a fetish I’ve had since I was **. It’s only been a few weeks that I dared to talk about this, but not yet in public. See, I have a fetish for pubic hair. More specifically from a man, a hairy dick and balls. I don’t know why, but it excites me to see a hairy dick and I’m not gay. My first memory dates back to when I was ** and I discovered porn on the internet. All those men had big dicks and lots of pubic hair and I was so jealous. My problems started last year when I wanted to have sex with a girl and I could not get a boner. Much to her disappointment she told everyone in class that I was gay, but I’m not.

Everyone in class bullied me, calling me names, sending me dick pics and pushed me around.

Last month it got even worse, 3 classmates sexually assaulted me after gym. When everyone left the locker room, they bullied me, calling me gay and then grabbed me and forced me to suck their dicks. The biggest issue is that I got a boner from their pubic hairs and even came in my pants during the assault. I did not enjoy sucking their dicks and when they came, it was disgusting. That night I felt humiliated but got a huge boner and came, just from thinking of their pubic hairs. The hairs on their dick and balls, the way some hairs curled, how those hairs touched my tong when I licked their balls. How the hairs of one boy ticked my nose when I deepthroated him.

**Anonymous**

My ex-boyfriend had a foot fetish. I never forget our first night together at his house when his parents were out for the weekend. We sat in the living room, talked and watched some TV and he massaged my feet. So far, all ok, needless to say that I enjoyed the foot massage. When he started to lick my feet and suck on my toes and clearly got aroused from it, I got on top of him to have sex. During the sex he continuously touched my feet and when he almost came, he pulled out and came on my feet. I have nothing against him worshipping my feet, but not in favour of every time cum between my toes. I broke up with him, not because of his fetish, but because the way he treated me.

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