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I receive all kinds of sex questions and confessions. And some deserve just a little more attention. Do women fake orgasms? Yes, most women have done it. The reasons why may surprise you. If you decide to do it, you need to know how to do it. A little ooh and ah, I’m coming, I’m coming and done, you faked your orgasm, why do women pretend so much? First of all: so many women do it, faking an orgasm. No less than 60 percent of women sometimes shout that they see fireworks while they are just fake moaning, shaking and puffing. In this post you can read how to fake an orgasm.

For those that never read any of my posts, let me introduce myself, I am a doctor/general practitioner (GP), married, I have a gorgeous daughter, and I have a COCK addiction, if you have any questions, feel free to contact me and I will answer any question you have xxx

About 60 percent of women fake their orgasm. But why do women actually do it? Faking an orgasm when such an orgasm should be the ultimate pleasure, a thrilling climax, the ultimate release? Some women fake because they are insecure about their sexual performance or because they want to increase their own arousal during sex. Other women discover it difficult to climax or are not stimulated well or long enough, so they pretended to get rid of it. Or not to hurt the man’s ego. But there are also women who fake because they are afraid of intimacy or to have an emotional relationship. Whatever the reasons, many men don’t notice at all when a woman is faking. Sometimes it’s because of Oscar-worthy acting by the woman in question, but more often because men can hardly imagine that a woman doesn’t come after their fantastic sex performance.

Men need to realize that a woman needs more than a pumping cock to reach an orgasm. Few women come from only penetration, the clitoris also has to be stimulated during the sex, just like other body parts. When men invest in better finger play and put their tongue to work, the chance that those ah, aah, aaaahhh’s are real becomes a bit bigger.

**Some of the reasons why women fake their orgasms**

You’re tired – Sex takes time and energy, an orgasm even more so. Women take an average of 20 minutes to orgasm. If you’re out of breath, you can shorten the sex with a faked orgasm.

You are stressed – A real orgasm does not work, because your body does not have the rest to enjoy. Then fake it, to give your partner the idea that it happened.

It makes you horny – increase your own arousal, your own moans and the wondered of an orgasm can be very arousing.

You don’t want to disappoint him – you don’t want to hurt his feelings. You want him to see that you are enjoying yourself and that an orgasm is part of it. It’s just a long way off, but you don’t want to make him feel like he’s not performing well or being too slow, hope it will be over sooner. Instead of telling him it’s not efficient today, choose to make him think he succeeded this time too.

You don’t want to show that you don’t know how to do it – maybe your insecure, getting an orgasm doesn’t just happen. You yourself don’t really know how to do it, or how it feels. Because you don’t want to let him know, you think that’s stupid.

**How to fake an orgasm**

If you follow the below steps and don’t overact from how you normally are during sex, you should be able to fake your orgasm. It seems simple to do, but remember, at all times ask yourself why you want to fake your orgasms. Knowing that, you can begin working on getting real orgasms and therefore real pleasure, instead of putting energy into faking it.

1 Close your eyes

You can’t look him in the eye while you’re faking, the confrontation might be too great. Moreover, when you close your eyes, it seems like you are enjoying yourself more.

2 Moan occasionally

Sexy sounds are part of sex. They are confirmations to him that you are enjoying yourself. And it’s exciting for him and maybe for you too. Note: moan as you normally do. If you suddenly begin moaning very loudly and violently, he thinks he has found the key to your pleasure, which is probably not the case.

3 Torture the bedsheets

Squeeze, pull, push, pretend you surrender your body and you can not control it anymore. That turns him on and makes him think you’re about to come.

4 Breathe fast and gasp

Rapid breathing is associated with excitement. The faster you breathe, the more aroused you are. He knows that too, so if you want him to think you’re super horny, gasp.

5 Curl your back

It drives him crazy and he doesn’t even realize that you’re faking. Just before and during an orgasm, many muscles tighten. The arching of your back indicates that your muscles are becoming increasingly tense, an orgasm is near.

6 Keep him informed

Tell him what you feel, that you like it and, most importantly, that you are about to come. When you come, say it like this (whilst you let your legs and hands shake a little, just like a real orgasm)

Sexy in his ear: Then drop your voice half way through. This makes him think that you can no longer think clearly and that you will lose control of yourself for a while.

Loud moaning: shout it out. With this you can turn him on even more, so that he is busy with his own orgasm and has no time to pay attention to yours. Be careful not to actually yell. That can come across as fake and exaggerated.

7 After your fake orgasm, relax and do this:

Let your legs and hands still shake a little – just like a real orgasm

Then relax your body

Breathe in and out slowly

Compliment him, tell him how good he was

Hope you like the following shared from my readers and I have their permission to post them:

**Fleur 23**

From the age of 18 I faked about 3 years and with 5 bed partners. Each time we just had cock-in-vagina sex. That doesn’t get me done, and at a certain point you don’t feel like it anymore. You’re gonna moan a bit and move more and done, fake orgasm. Because of porn, I had the idea that orgasms at the same time is ordinary. I often didn’t want to disappoint those guys. Out of insecurity I didn’t dare to indicate that I needed stimulation on my clit. This changed when I got a boyfriend 3 years ago. Finally, there was room to talk about fingering and eating my pussy. That has given my sex life and self-confidence a boost. If men and women do not solve this together, you will only have losers in bed.

**Anonymous 27**

Sometimes it feels like I’m being forced to come, it creates a lot of pressure. I also don’t feel like starting a whole discussion with a cock inside me. Sometimes you hardly know each other, starting a conversation feels like a threshold. Then I will fake. Men often have a enormous ego, you don’t want to hurt that. If I had a longer relationship, I would dare to make it clear that I do not want to be pushed. I sometimes faked with a boy with whom I had a sexual relationship for a year. He had a big ego. I was a sort of doll he had sex with, it was all about him. At a certain point I was fed up, and when he texted that he wanted to meet up, I said If you’re just as self-absorbed asshole like last time, I don’t need it anymore. He reacted surprised. Are you serious? Do you really think so? It felt good to say and he took the hint because the sex got better. Do I still fake? Sometimes, But I now also know that i will not achieve anything with faking. I am older, have more self-confidence and therefore dare to indicate what I like in bed.

**Jamie 24**

I was in my first year of school and had sex for two or three years. Reaching an orgasm was at all times difficult. My girlfriends didn’t seem to have any problems and at all times said, ‘When you come, you know you know. Well, I don’t. The sex was at all times nice, and during sex I often felt a tension that I associated with an orgasm. Then I would moan more and tighten the muscles in my vagina to make it look like the discharge would come in. Then when he asked if I had come, I just said Yes. With friends I bought my first vibrator. That evening I really had an orgasm for the first time. Soon I felt guilty because I realized that I had been faking my orgasms for years. that boy? In the end I chose the truth, and he got angry. How can you lie to me like that? You can feel when you come, don’t you? He made me doubt myself. Fortunately, I now have a friend that listens to me in bed. The image i at all times had of sex comes from movies and porn. It focuses on the man. Your role in bed is to do what the man wants, as long as he cums, at least I know it’s good. But this is an unrealistic view of sex. Porn makes it seem like every woman comes screaming, that’s why I wondered I should be able to do that too.

Please if you have any questions, confessions, or you need some advice, or just horny talks, feel free to contact me and I will answer any question you have xxx

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