Sexually Frustrated

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Me and my girl are complete sexual opposites. She’s into CNC, getting slapped around and “she likes the pain with the pleasure” which is cool like I’ve done all of this before but I just can’t bring myself to do it to her. She also doesn’t really satisfy me, my dick isn’t enormous or anything but she can hardly get past my tip and it jus makes me scream inside. She also will only get on top for like 30 seconds like she’s a real pillow princess and I know it’s not her fault and I’d never leave her for it BUT it’s been almost 2 years now and I’m going crazy. Like to the point in honestly not even aroused by her anymore. I don’t wanna leave her. And I’ve wondered about cheating but never gone through with it. But I feel like if I don’t have sex w somebody else soon it’s gonna begin to hurt our relationship cuz honestly the wondered of sex with her right now turns me off. We’ve talked about 3sums but she’s not really going for it. I am a sexual person been this way since I was old enough to masturbate and she can’t really keep up. Again it’s not her fault we come from 2 completely different backgrounds so I try to make sure she doesn’t feel inadequate but in reality I think we’re both just not enough for each other. Any advice on how to spice it up apart from me forcing myself to krentend I’m into the CNC, pet names, domination and allat? (No shame I’m into it I just can’t bring myself to look @ her that way or treat her that way but no shame I promise). She’s outta state for another month or so and honestly I wanna take this time to get all my sexual frustration out so I can go to her with an open mind and maybe even b ready to try it. I don’t wanna get on tinder or anything like that cuz I just have a gut feeling she’ll figure out. So if anybody is looking for a temporary fwb or even wants to help me experiment and maybe get more into the CNC and all of that type sex world then please I am here and I need some sort of guidance?? (22M)
This is not a desperate plea for sex!!! This is a plea for help so I can break into a new world ??
Opinion if u know anything that would help and my dm’s are open also. I’ve been trying to get more active on Reddit cuz the communities are great and like minded ppl seem to gather here as opposed to all the other social media so hopefully u guys welcome me w open arms.✅

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2 Comments

  1. MangoZer0

    Many couples use new characters for sexual plays like that. So there is a clear line between your normal and your sexual life. Use costumes and wigs and give yourself new names. By that everything you do (like CNC, hard spanking or whatever) you don’t do to your partner, you do it with the new person 🙂

  2. dumbdomdom

    You’re 22. Just break up, it’s okay to just go “we’re incompatible and I’m not looking for anything this serious anyways. Sorry. No one’s fault.”